Following Mode

Sometimes, I wonder if sometimes we get into what I will so originally coin as "follower mode". This is where we are so focused on being led by someone, we forget to look at what we can do next or what is ahead but we fall back on someone else to do all that for us. At this point, simple things become laid off to our blind spots, hiding like they do not exist. But on any other given day or moment we would take care of these these obvious needs ourselves. I admit, I know this is a vague topic and description, but I think it is also a very simple topic, we become so dependent, we slide backwards. hmmm. where is the balance.